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10 categories of ladies that you should think twice before dating or marrying
Hi guys! So, we need to address something really important to you – the female folk. They are amazing humans who make lives fun and enjoyable but sometimes, when you align with the wrong one, she can make you regret making a move. Know this fact – It’s not every woman you come across that fits the dating/marriage scene! Some might look good physically but bad inside while there is the other way round as well. Believe me when I say, finding the right one can be quite a hectic journey. It is believed that every girl can be classified as a certain type. No offense, ladies, but it looks like a lot belong to one of 9 categories — unless you’re already a category 10, which means “the one” to someone. Let’s see what we have below:
1. The chatterbox/gossip
They never mind their own business, always focused on what other people are doing or how they are living their lives. Guys, you do not need this kind of woman as a wife. What you need is someone that would build a home with you and this requires some focus on her own plans and life. If not, then you are fighting a losing battle.
2. The desperate chick
These sets of ladies will seem fantastic at first; well, at least until they jump the gun and start talking about your wedding location, how many kids they want – right after the first date! When a woman moves faster than normal, watch out. They need a man so desperately that they are willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.
3. The overly-critical woman
Next are the overly critical ones; no matter what you do for them, it’s just not good enough. If it is not done according to their standards, it’s not going to work and they will quickly take it out of context, to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against you. They have a lot of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person, You need to be extra careful with this one.
4. The high maintenance/spoilt brat
In this category, they have expensive taste and expect you to shower them with only the best things, take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother. They are used to having everything handed to them and are unlikely to make the best wives. Being obsessed with material things is not a healthy trait and if they care more about the material things over family, faith and spiritual fulfillment, then they will not make the best partners. They might even lead to your ruin as you want to do things beyond your power to satisfy them.
5. The clingy/attention seeker
These ladies can be a nuisance. They can’t do anything without the company of her man; they can adopt your interests, call you 20 times a day and flare up anytime they are not around to monitor you. They could insist that you spend every waking moment with them, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else. While it is good to like and want attention from your man, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea.
6. The bimbo
These ladies are the majority you see on the streets. These are intellectually challenged women who look great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open their mouths. Their skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and you do not want to bring a girl like that home to meet mom and dad.
7. The club/party girl
Club/party girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have the most beautiful faces, nicely painted mouths, big eyes, great legs, dressed in the most flashy clothes and all the curves you could ever ask for. They get invites to parties constantly. They may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that their entire life is a party and on most nights, will most likely end with her waking up hungover, or worse still, in some stranger’s bed in the morning. Such ladies might not have marriage in their plans.
8. The gold digger
These group of ladies will ask you questions and compliment you (if you impress them) on your expensive gadgets, phones, watch, car, job, where you live and so on. They are basically looking for wealthy sugar daddies to fund their lifestyles; they want to flaunt their designer items and post it on social media. They’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out. They will suck your wallet dry and leave you dry.
9. The feminist
The feminist women are common these days. They can never be pleased by men as they believe that they are the cause of all the pains and ills of the society. They also believe that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way” or better; anything you do will always be negative to her.
10. The changers
These kind of women are everywhere and many men are wary of; there are some men who love them though because of their own insecurities. They claim to love you just the way you are but little by little, they start to change things about him; from his wardrobe to his taste in music.
11. The bitter woman
The women in this class always seem to be angry at the male gender all the time, maybe because they have had their hearts broken one too many times. They are always bashing men and talking about how they are not good or useless. You might not want to settle down with someone so bitter and angry like this because when the opportunity arises, they would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words your way due to all the unresolved anger.
12. The selfish woman
The selfish women are the ones determined to make sure they always come first and if what you want is a happy home and a partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear of these ladies as they would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you.
13. The flirty woman
The flirty women always seem to shift interest from one person to another; like a butterfly from one man to another, making them feel like she is interested in them. Well, you need to beware because a habit like that might be hard to break after marriage.
14. The commitment phobes
The commitment phobes usually find it hard to commit to anything (school, jobs, family, friendship) and seems to lose interest in everything quickly, always looking for the next thing to jump into. You would have a hard time keeping them focused in the marriage.
15. The disrespectful woman
The disrespectful women are always rude to people; they consider them beneath their standards. You need to think twice about marrying her because respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute and should not be taken lightly.
So guys, when you want to lock it down to one woman and spend the rest of your life with her, you need to make sure she’s worthy of your time and attention. Be careful