Who else has been looking for ways to collecting money or things from her boyfriend? Maybe you have a stingy one or maybe you don’t just know the proper ways to collect that amount of money or thing you want from him. Or just maybe, you always ask but he doesn’t give. Please read on and follow and properly implement these steps to get that money you want.
Have you been searching for an alternative or a solution or even an easy way out to collecting money from him? Well if you have, follow these simple four (4) steps. The steps are not a guarantee your boyfriend would give it to you, but if properly implemented would definitely work for you.
1. Don’t ask for it just yet; Present a problem: I know this is a bit confusing but let me break it down. Let’s assume you want to collect money to make your hair, maybe you’ve asked and he doesn’t want to give it or you haven’t asked at all. Make sure he’s there while you say or follow these steps. See what to do: present a problem by saying something like… “Ah! Making hair really isn’t an easy thing, it’s painful, plus it keeps cutting or pulling my hair… You know what I won’t make hair ever again.. But I’m a Lady, I’m going to look tattered and unkept if I don’t make my hair, I mean the hair says a lot about a woman.. Anyways that would be later.”
Then you pause.
Make sure you have his attention, make sure he’s listening to you while you say these things. He doesn’t have to reply.
2. Complain and always talk about the problem, but in a good way: I’m also going to use the hair as an example. Don’t lash out on him, screaming or scolding him. Be calm. Make him understand that you don’t even want this but you have no other option. Eg “Love, I don’t even want to make my hair, like it’s so painful but think about it what can I do right?.. I still have to make my hair.
3. Offer to borrow to get what you want: You see, when your guy loves you he definitely wouldn’t love the idea of you borrowing from someone even your own female friend. So when you offer to borrow he’s going to sound like this: let’s say, you offer to borrow: Love, I don’t really have the money to make my hair now but I have to make my hair. I will just borrow from Tracy later I will pay back. He’s going to be like why will you borrow? Then say: I know you have a lot to do with your money so I don’t really want to bother you and I’m not sure you have. It’s either he picks offense because you didn’t even ask and just concluded that he might not have which at the end you will apologise and he will give you the money or he will offer straight up to give it to you without being offended. Now if you get to this step and he still doesn’t comply, then continue reading..
4. Ask to borrow from him: You might think this is lame but he won’t collect the money from you when you offer to pay back. So, just tell him you want to borrow that you would pay back.
Note please: Ask when you are sure he has it, though sometimes a guy can have and still deny the fact that he has.
Ask specifically, say what you need the money for.
Don’t ask for ridiculous things depending on the guys pocket: You can’t ask for a wig of 50k or even 100k when you know he’s just a student.
We are all humans so do to others what you would like others to do to you.
I really hope the steps work for you