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Guys Don’t Sleep With Your Girlfriend Again Until You Marry Her Or These 6 Things Will Happen To Your Marriage And Kids

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6 Effects of Premarital S3x on Marriage You May Not Know

 

Tell a man not to open a particular door and see how long he will be willing to obey you. He will go on thinking about why you should ask him not to go into the particular room while he can enter other ones. Give him some time, he will open the room to see what is inside.That is the nature of human beings. We want to know what we were asked not to know. We want to explore life and enjoy it. We like looking into the future to see how it looks. We want to explore adult life, to feel like a woman and feel like a man. Our parents, our elders in the community, and our religious leaders call it sin but we call it enjoyment.

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Sex before marriage may have been frown on, but some youths still want to explore and confirm if what elders are saying is true or they are just mounting fear on them.

Some people who got involved in it before they married and thought they got away with it, may not know that some of the things they are now battling within their marriages today may be as a result of premarital sex they had in the past. Although not every challenge in the family is caused by premarital sex, some of these things I will be listing below are effects of it.

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Below are some of the effects premarital sex can have on a family.

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1. You will not be satisfied by your spouse. When you get involve in premarital sex early enough, it can make you addicted to it so much that you want it every day.

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When you now get married, you will want your husband to be as active as those men you use to have it with and when he is not able to do like them, you will feel like you are being starved or that he is not a perfect match for you.

Also, if a man got involved in premarital sex before he found his wife, he will want his wife to be stylish like those ladies he has had it with before marriage used to do it with him.

This can make the man start complaining that he is not getting enough attention from his wife. The truth is, there is no how his wife will be able to meet up with his demand.

So if you are not yet married and you are thinking of looking for a lady with whom you will be having premarital sex. I will advise that you think about your decision twice because its effect can be serious when you finally settle down with your wife.

2. You may cheat on your spouse with another person. Getting involve in premarital sex can make you start cheating on your spouse because you will not be getting enough of him.

For instance, if a lady took premarital sex as a hobby and dwelled in it for long before coming out to marry. If she gets married, her husband will not be able to satisfy her and that can make her seek alternative ways to satisfy herself by cheating on her husband.

If you don’t want related things, it will be better if you avoid premarital sex.

3. You may start using sex toys. When a woman becomes active in premarital sex, switch to using lovemaking gadgets that you will not want your spouse to see especially if you are a woman. It can make you start seeking privacy and start avoiding your husband.

So it will be good if you avoid it now that you are not yet married than to face that type of life in your marriage.

4. It can lead to childlessness. Another negative effect that premarital sex can have on marriages is that it can prevent a woman from conceiving. If a lady gets involved in premarital sex and became pregnant. If she terminates the pregnancy and goes back to do the same thing over and over again. If she keeps on terminating it to the point that her womb got affected. It can render her childless.

Also, if a lady asks a doctor to do one or two things to their womb so that she can be free to “enjoy” life. Some ladies do this because they believe that they will never get married. But along the line, any of them may come across a man who she will fall in love with and finally get settled as a couple. They will not be able to have children because the womb is not in order.

5. It can lead to trouble in the family. Taking part in premarital sex can lead a man into having some children he cannot account for. In the process of having multiple partners before marriage, a man can get a lady pregnant and denied her because he is not financially buoyant. If he later gets married to another lady and they are doing well, the lady with which he had a child can resurface with the child. This may not go well with his wife and it can lead to problems in their marriage.

6. It can lead to divorce. In most marriages, husband and wife will possibly begin to get worried once they are two to three years and there is no child. They will start looking for a way out. If they go to the hospital and it was confirmed that one of them is the cause of the childlessness, especially if it is the woman. The husband may send her packing or says that he wants a divorce so that he can marry another woman. Some husbands will go outside their marriage to have children. This will now make the lady start living in regrets and wished that she never took part in premarital sex.

So, because of these effects things, it will be good if you abstain from premarital sex and wait for the right time when you will have it with your spouse.

If you are experiencing any of these in your marriage, remember that this article didn’t state emphatically that those experiencing things mentioned above got involved in premarital sex. It can be a coincidence. Your spouse may not be involved. You should see doctor if you have delay in children and also pray.

If you are experiencing any of the above, below are some suggested solutions.

1. Teach your spouse how to be active and do not cheat on her. Also, note that you didn’t get to your level in lovemaking activity level in a day. So give him/her time to improve. You can learn how to talk him/her into it. You can go for marriage counseling.

2. Learn to open up when you are not satisfied, don’t die in silence.

3. In case of delay in childbearing, the first place you must visit is any government-approved hospital near you.

4. If you do anything that affected your womb, try to open up to your suitor before you get married to him. So that he will make his decision whether to continue with the relationship or not. If you tell him and he feels like continue then he will not feel like you forced him into marrying you.

Confess any hidden things you know can come back to hunt you. So that when it comes, it will not be a shock to your spouse. And by that, you will overcome it with ease.

5. Commit everything in God’s hands because, with God, all things are possible. (Matthew 19:26)

 

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The Miracle Charcoal Can Perform In Your Life, We Thought You Should Know About It

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The Miracle Charcoal Can Perform In Your Life, We Thought You Should Know About It

Put Small Pieces Of Charcoal Under Your Bed And In Your Pocket And See The Miracles It Perform

 

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It works in an aggressive way because the more we use protection, the more we tend to call it.

Most magical practices need to be protected as a first step before any spell occurs. Remember to know the difference between the real need for protection and the fear that holds us back.

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Also, being arrogant or overconfident can give a person unhealthy courage to take them to dangerous places. This skill takes time to do well.

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Your thoughts and feelings need to be considered and you will soon be able to find the true difference between ego, fear and the real need for protection.

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Seven practical methods of spiritual protection from coal will be discussed here today. Keep in mind that protection is like your umbrella. If you don’t have it get ready to get wet.

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How to Use Coal for Protection

1) A small piece of charcoal wrapped in a paper towel and put in your pocket can keep you safe from evil spirits, curses, evil eye, evil spirits and magical attacks.

2) Place these three coals on a white plate and place them under your bed to get the same results above.

3) After using each charcoal wash them with running water.

Coal can also be used in many ways such as drawing sketches, oars, circles, etc.

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If You Don’t Stop Drinking Garri What Will Happen You May Not Like It

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If You Don’t Stop Drinking Garri What Will Happen You May Not Like It

Garri made from tubes and roots of the cassava plant contains proteins, fat, carbohydrates, iron, Vitamin B and C and also starch. The leaves contain calcium, iron, fats and protein too.

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Garri is a carbohydrate based food consumed in many West African countries, Nigeria in particular. Processed from Cassava, Garri in its raw form is creamy-white or light-yellowish flour with a slightly fermented flavor. The two main varieties of Garri are “White” and “Yellow” Garri. Essentially, both varieties of Garri have the similar processing methods, the yellow color can be achieved simply by adding a few drops of palm-oil to the cassava flour during the frying/drying stage.

Garri can be eaten without further cooking, as a snack, by pouring it in a bowl adding water, sugar, groundnut and milk usually called garri soakings. For example, ijebu-garri is made with finer grains, and has a pleasantly sour taste, making it very suitable to be eaten in this way. In most parts of West Africa, sugar or honey is then added as well as chunks of coconut, groundnuts, tiger nuts milk, and cashew nuts. In most garri recipes it is cooked by adding boiling water and stirring to make a stiff paste known as Eba. Eba is normally eaten with different kinds of soups or stews. Most parts of Africa have an equivalent staple cassava dish. However, Garri has it own side effects to the body and below are some reasons you shouldn’t be drinking too much of garri;

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1. It Makes You Feel Weak

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Garri is a staple food in Nigeria which almost all Nigerians drink on a daily basis. Garri can actually makes you feal weak after drinking it especially when you’re very hungry and you drink it in an empty stomach (when you’ve not eaten anything). Although this won’t happen immediately after drinking but give it time, you’ll be weak after drinking garri without eating any other foods on it. This might lead to making you feeling sleepy and by that, it could ruin your day as you might not be able to do anything afterwards cause all you will want to do is sleep!!!

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2. Eye Defects

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Garri is made from cassava which is known to contain hydrocyanic acid. Cyanide in garri contained in large quantity can lead to serious eye defects. However, proper, safe, and thorough production of the garri should reduce the concentration of the cyanide to a considerate level.

3. It Dries Blood

This has not yet been proven scientifically though, but people always say drinking too much of garri actually dry blood. Especially when drinking it without adding milk.

4. It May Worsen Ulcer

Where in excess, another drastic effect of Cyanide which is an organic acid in nature is that it can lead to intestinal issues, and it can worsen the situation of an ulcer patient. If you’re an ulcer patient, you shouldn’t be consuming too much of garri cause it’s harmful to your health.

5. Causes Weight Gain

Cassava which is the crop from which garri is made from is rich in carbohydrate. A cup of garri contain about 360 calories, out of which 99 percent is carbohydrate. Hence, consuming too much of garri leads to excess storage of carbohydrate in the body and this can lead to unnecessary weight gain. So, you should know, garri isn’t good for weight loss.

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14 years after these beautiful twins were cut into two; this is how they have grown separately

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14 years after these beautiful twins were cut into two, this is how they have grown separately.

 

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Two girls had been born together 14 years before. At birth Kendra Deene Herrin and Maliyah Mae Heerin had been together in 2002 before they were separated in 2006 by surgery. When they were conceived, they both shared a single kidney. Also their legs were just two independently regulated by each. The kidney was maintained by Kendra after the surgery, while her sister had a kidney transplant dialysis for one year. Her mother gave the kidney one year after the procedure.

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They were born in the United States, Salt Lake City, Utah. Jake and Erin Herrin ‘s parents. During service, Maliyah ‘s life was at stake but still had to be done so that each would have a life of their own and make their own decisions. These two girls only have two legs, an abdomen, pelvic, liver , kidney and the large intestines. they are born together, yet they have different tastes. Therefore, each of the doubles has a leg access. It was confirmed that when they were four and a half years old in 2006, the procedure where they were split was carried out. In addition, it was said that the procedure lasted about 20 hours, with up to 7 surgeons involved. After separation, another procedure began, lasting another 7 hours for both of the children. They remained in the hospital for more than a month before being released to travel with their parents.

These girls have become so pretty 14 years after all surgeries and loves. While Kendra once refused the kidney her mother transplanted for in 2007, another successful transplant was performed.

They’re well aged now:

 

 

 

 

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They all learn how to use crutches at the time. In comparison, over the years several changes have arisen and their parents plan on prothesizing them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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