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Painful Signs Your Man Doesn’t Love You Anymore, Your Friend Is Enjoying Him

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Painful Signs Your Man Doesn’t Love You Anymore, Your Friend Is Enjoying Him

 

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What would you do if you recognize the signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore, especially if you’ve been with him for a long time, if you two have kids, and if you thought you’d grow old with him?

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I would say that both women and men have their own ways to get over a divorce, but since women are more sensitive, they suffer more than men.

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I know it’d be great to be with the same person you are married to until the day you die, but unfortunately, that’s not always possible.

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Sometimes it happens that you end up being married and after a while of what you thought was a sure thing, you start asking yourself, “Does he even love me ?”

34 Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore (Or Want You Either)

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There are a lot of factors that contribute to divorces and lack of love, but you should know that if you really care about someone, there are no problems that you can’t get over.

Actually, “Never give up that easily” is the best relationship advice I can give you.

 

 

I know many women who are aware of the fact that their men don’t love them anymore, even after years of marriage , but still, they all keep living with them like everything’s completely okay.

This is just denying reality, and a marriage like this is doomed from the moment it stopped being a real relationship.

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Also, there are a lot of guys who are to their women, but for some reason, their women still want to be with them.

Sometimes women stay with guys who don’t love them because of their beautiful children , financial status, or because they’ve grown used to them. In some cases, marriages fall apart because of poor sex life .

But those aren’t good reasons why you should put up with something that is killing you slowly.

I present you some of the most common warning signs that made these women come to the important realization: “He doesn’t love me anymore !” So read carefully!

1. He doesn’t communicate with you much

 

 

If your husband has stopped communicating with you and you feel that something’s amiss, it’s a sign that he is slowly falling out of love with you .

I know some of you will say that lack of communication doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, but a woman’s gut is something you should never neglect, because in 99.99% of cases, it’s correct.

If you notice that the two of you just keep quiet in the house while you’re doing your thing and he’s doing his, that’s just a signal of the beginning of the relationship problems .

To save your marriage, you can try to talk to him. In the end, if you don’t try, you’ll never know whether or not you could’ve done something about it.

If this is happening for the first time , my suggestion is not to be mean or anything, but tell him openly that you don’t feel good in a relationship without open communication.

As a possible solution, ask him if he’s willing to work on it with you.

If he says he will try, you should respect that, but if he doesn’t give a damn about what you have to say, you know what your next step should be.

Although it’s easy to say to someone, “leave him,” it’s not that easy to actually do it.

Even though you’re already brokenhearted and angry with disappointment, some warm feelings are still present.

So please, if this happens, cut the cord as soon as possible and try to keep your self-esteem .

2. He’s bored with you

 

 

It’s normal that in a long-term relationship there will be times when you’ll be bored with your spouse, and you just need to do some interesting things with him.

But if you see that your husband is bored only when he is with you and not when he’s doing his own thing, that’s a sign that something is terribly wrong.

Maybe there is another woman in his life and he is only thinking about her.

Maybe he’s coming up with ways to meet her as soon as possible, and everything you say is boring to him.

Or perhaps there are problems he’s going through, but if he doesn’t talk to you and if you annoy him every time you say something, that’s not a good sign .

Sadly, based on what you’re reading, it seems that your relationship doesn’t have that much time left.

If this behavior continues over a long period, it is a bad sign that your husband doesn’t love you anymore.

You shouldn’t put up with this behavior because it’s not something you deserve.

If you’re giving him all your love and affection and he shows complete disinterest in making you happy, a man like that is not worthy of being in your life.

Basically, the point is, it wouldn’t be much waste to kick him out of your life.

3. He fights with you all the time

 

 

If you can no longer have any normal conversation with him and he says that you are at fault for all the problems between you two, it’s likely that he has no problem in making you feel bad.

This is a serious red flag that maybe he doesn’t love you anymore. You should check if this is something that will be present in your life for only a short time or if it will continue for longer.

Whatever you do, don’t let your happiness slip through your fingers. Instead, try to by asking him about the reasons he feels that way.

If he still cares, he’ll be happy that you asked, and he will work on it.

Getting help from a marriage counselor is a move that’s helped a lot of troubled couples who just needed a push toward a happier future.

But if he refuses to do anything about it, then he doesn’t feel anything about you, and it is time to dump him.

You should know that staying with a man like that will hurt you more than leaving him.

Staying with him will never heal your broken heart . By leaving him, on the other hand, there’s a chance for you to heal much faster than you thought.

You don’t deserve someone who will only pay attention to you when he’s in the mood, one who will ignore you every time you need him.

That is not what true love really is – don’t ever forget that. No matter how much you love him, show him that you will be okay on your own. Show him that you don’t need him to complete you.

4. He doesn’t put any effort into your relationship

 

 

For some time now, you are the only one who’s been putting some effort into your relationship.

He doesn’t want to do anything nice for you, and he doesn’t even want to talk about it.

This is a sign of disrespect – something no woman should put up with.

Disrespect is one of the strongest signals that point to an unhappy marriage .

If he doesn’t want to have a good life with you, tell him that you’re not the one who will bear all of the relationship responsibilities on your back.

Let him know this is his wake-up call, and if he doesn’t want to change, he can leave because you’ll feel much better on your own than with a toxic guy who doesn’t even give a damn about you.

You have to think about your own well-being . The point of every relationship is to have someone who will take care of you, love you, and go the extra mile for you.

But if that’s not what you’re getting, you better think twice if he is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

You can break every relationship down to the basics – you’re holding hands or you’re not, meaning he’s there for you or he’s not. It’s that simple.

 

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Nigerians Who Were Killed After Winning Millons From Betting (Photos)

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Nigerians Who Were Killed After Winning Millons From Betting (Photos)

Jeremiah 17: 9:

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“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?”

The evidence that we are living in a wicked world has never been vivid than this. The hearts of men is full of wickedness and pure evil. Not everyone wants to see your happy.

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Once upon a time, these young men lived a life of penury, but when their lives was about to get better, they were gruesomely killed by wicked and jealousy people.

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Read on and learn to zip your lips when something good is about to happen to you. Not everyone wants to see you succeed.

1. Seun

 

 

On the 3rd of April 2016, fear gripped the residents of a Jimoh Balogun area of Ketu after a 32-year old man was murdered in his one-room apartment at by gunmen. According to reports, Seun had won N3 million from sport betting before he was shot dead by unknown gunmen.

2. Mieyebi Prince

 

 

If Mieyebi Prince was still alive today he would have probably be thinking of how fun-filled Christmas was going to be for him and his family. But now it’s sadness, tears and mourning.

 

 

27-years-old Mieyebi Prince was stabbed to death by unknown men after winning N15 million from sport betting. The sad incident happened on the 23rd of November at Ogbe-Ijoh, Warri, Delta State.

3. Achuku Joseph

 

 

In April 2018, 28-years-old Achuku Joseph a resident of Sabo Pegi area of Lafia, the Nasarawa state capital, was brutally murdered by unknown men after winning N7.4 million on sports betting. Joseph’s lifeless body was abandoned by the roadside with several deep machete wounds.

The morning he was killed, it was alleged that Joseph left his home without informing anyone that he is going to collect his money. Unfortunately, he was found dead with several deep wounds on his body.

The person or people who attacked him took the documents necessary to get the money he won. Investigation has been going on since 2018 but no one has been brought to book.

 

 

In May 2020, the father of late Joseph begged the Nigerian police yet again to help him fish out the killers of his son. Up till date the people or person who killed Joseph has not be found.

 

 

The Killers of Seun, Mieyebi Prince and Joseph Achuku are moving around freely enjoying their lives. But a day will come they will have to stand before before an Omnipotent (All Knowing) God.

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After Bishop Abioye’s Former Driver Converted To Islam, See His Throwback Photos

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After Bishop Abioye’s Former Driver Converted To Islam, See His Throwback Photos

Islamic and Christian religion are religions which people knew throughout the world that allows peace to reign, and also shares the same love to each other as well. These religions are 100 per cent accepted by God, this means you are free to choose anyone among them and practice it so as to serve God.

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There are million numbers of people in the world who are practicing Islamic and Christian religion, and they fund joy and happiness for practicing them. So, my advise to everyone who is reading this article is that, no matter the type of the religion you are practicing among these religions, you should know how to show love to your neighbor as the Holy Books has directed us to do.

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Just because you are a Christian doesn’t mean you should not love Muslims, and just because you are a Muslim doesn’t mean you not care for your brothers and sisters who are Christians. We are all a family and we should always share the same love together as far we are all human being.

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My today’s inspirational message to you made me remember in 2017 (three years ago), when Bishop Abioye’s former driver identified as Nicholas Martins, converted to Islamic religion and changed his name to Ismail Haruna. Even though he was sacked as Bishop Abioye’s driver after he converted to Islam, but thank for his life he is still practicing the religion till today.

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See his throwback photos below:

 

 

Islam and Christianity is a peaceful religion, let’s serve them as God directed us to do and let there be no religious fight in our country. May Almighty God bless us all. Thanks for reading this article, and don’t forget to share it to your loved ones

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Stop Doing This 5 Things To Your Husband. It’s Wrong And Can Make Him Dump You

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Stop Doing This 5 Things To Your Husband. It’s Wrong And Can Make Him Dump You.

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Marriage is beautiful when the husband and wife know and understand their roles and play it well.

 

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As a wife when you are playing your roles very well, your efforts could became a waste if you mix them up with bad character. These bad characters will only frustrate your husband and can break your marriage.

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Below are examples of those bad characters a wife should stop doing.

1. Stop Comparing Your Husband With Other Men

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Wives stop comparing your husband with other men. It can ruin your marriage. If your husband gives you N2000 to cook soup. Take it with joy and use it prudently. Never tell your husband that your friend husband gives her N5000 for soup. It’s very wrong. All fingers are not equal.

2. Stop Using Your Body (S€x) As A Bargain

 

 

This is another bad habit that many women are fond of doing. When you want your husband to buy you something or give you money, you will say “When I get what I want, you get s€x.”

If you are fond of doing this, it’s a sin against God. The Bible reminds husbands and wives that their bodies are not their own.

Corinthians 7:4-5 reads:

“The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent…”

3. Stop Tying Wrapper All The Time

 

 

Before you got married, you were looking all adorable in your pencil skirts and jeans. Now you are married, you go around tying wrapper in the house. It’s absolutely wrong.

Truth be told, the sight of wrapper irritates many men. Wives Please get some skirts, and shorts to wear at home. Apart from looking nice, get some deodorant and smell nice too.

4. Stop Dishonouring Your Husband

 

 

Some women dishonour their husbands without knowing. They do so by correcting their husbands in front of others and criticizing him in front of their children or in public.

5. Stop Checking Your Husband Phone

 

 

Your husband’s phone is something private. It’s very wrong for you to for through his call logs, WhatsApp, Text Messages and photos. What are you looking for? If eventually you find nude pictures, what will you you do? Fight your husband? Quarrel with him? That will be a stupid thing to do.

 

 

Remember Maryam Sanda ? If she didn’t check her husband’s phone, she wouldn’t have killed him and get a death sentence.

 

 

Wives stay away from your husband’s phone.

Dear readers, What dou you think about these bad characters mentioned bove? You can also drop your own opinion in the comment section below

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